I had shared my experience of ramzan in Pakistan after a long time in my last posting. Jaydee had commented on it that first we can not force anyone to fast and second i should be more positive about Pakistan. I would like to make this the basis for my post today and would like you guys to give your inputs or comments with a serious thought to the points.
First in my post i had written about how i saw some people not keeping their Fast and smoking at the airport and others drinking at other place that i saw. Jaydee has the view that we can not force anyone to fast. I agree with the point, you can not force someone to do anything in Islam. But what my objection was that back in the old days (6-7 years) there was a sense of respect you would not find people have a smoke or eating out in the open. It was confined to the house or even your own room. People have reasons for not fasting but if you are not fasting you had respect for others and you would not be proud of it.
Second point Jaydee commented was that i was being too harsh on Pakistani society, there are things happening in the middle east also, and i should take a positive point. My biggest conceren is that we as a whole nation and umah do not want to see our faults and point out to the others. If we are not self critical than we will not change. Ignoring a problem wont solve it and diverting attention wont help either. We have to admit that today where we stand is not a good place to be. We need to admit that there are faults in our society (not only Pakistan but Muslaim Umah as a whole) and we need to be critical of ourselves if we want to change things around.
I once had a discussion with a friend about problem in our society and he said a very nice point. He said a problem is always solved if we agree that there is a problem. If we keep on ignoring that there is no problem than we will not be able to solve it. There is nothing wrong in admitting that oue society has problems and than we start talking and thinking and discussing about it.